Our Code of Conduct defines Minimum Participation as stripping to underwear. You should also be ready to be amongst other men who are masturbating and who may invite you to masturbate with them. Beyond that, you are in charge of your own level of participation. You don’t have to touch anyone or let anyone touch you, although mutual touch within the bounds of the Code of Conduct is welcome, common, and encouraged. Your body belongs to you only, and we absolutely honor and celebrate that. With respect to nerves, we accept that as natural for first-timers (though not everyone is!). We encourage you, when you’re ready, to come give it a try. Spend more than a few minutes in the space and we’ll bet the nerves just melt away